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SHOULD HAPPINESS BE ON THE CURRICULUM?

My mother’s favourite song was Happiness sung by Ken Dodd, which

was released in 1964. Indeed I went, with my mother, to see him in

‘Doddy’s here’ at the London Palladium in 1965, a show in which he

sang his signature song (How cool is that?) See him below:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FEjlKOEjM1M Whilst you’re on

youtube take time to watch a bizarre interview  with  Ken Dodd and 

the Beatles  (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RbjHqnb3dMM) This

song does not have the greatest lyric ever but it made my mum smile

every time she heard it, which is why she liked it.  Below are a couple

of verses from the song. 

To me this old world is a wonderful place
And I'm just about the luckiest human in the whole human race
I've got no silver and I've got no gold
Just a whole lot of happiness in my soul

A wise old man told me one time
That happiness is nothing but a frame of mind
I hope when you go to measuring my success
That you don't count my money count my happiness

The now veteran comedian clearly had an intuitive grasp of

something which has been consistently proven, by academic

research,  over the years; that there is no correlation between

increases in income and happiness (Happiness: Lessons from

a New Science by Richard Layard and Happiness, Economics

and Public Policy by Helen Johns and Paul Ormerod).  The

graph below is typical of the research, in the USA and UK, 

which shows that although incomes rose steeply in the 20th

century people’s reported state of happiness fluctuated but

remained stubbornly stable.  This finding is not as clear in

other European countries.

                                 

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The recent release of the new film by Mike Leigh, ‘Happy-Go-Lucky’,

about a relentlessly optimistic and happy primary school teacher,

Poppy Cross,  started me thinking about how do people become

happy.  Happiness is something which is a common aspiration

for all of us.  Happiness  was enshrined in the American

Declaration of Independence ('We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are

Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness');arguably the most

successful nation in history.  But Americans have not become

happier.  Indeed the only country in the world (so far!) that has

identified happiness as a goal for the country is Bhutan.   King

Jigme Singye Wangchuck who came to power at the age of 16,

in 1972, coined the term Gross National Happiness (GNH).  The

four pillars of GNH are the promotion of equitable and sustainable

socio-economic development, preservation and promotion of

cultural values, conservation of the natural environment and

establishment of good governance.  A film shot in the mid 1990s

gives an idea of GNH in Bhutan (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CXJwNSkdTH0 ). 

 

There has however been a massive growth in research on happiness

and related topics in what is broadly termed ‘positive psychology’

which was pioneered by Martin Seligman.  There is little agreement

about a definition of happiness.  Is happiness permanent or transitory?  Do we judge happiness by external criteria or our internal state of mind?  Some psychologists define it as life satisfaction or the

degree to which an individual judges the overall quality of his or her

life-as-a-whole favourably.  In other words: how well he or she likes

the life he/she leads.  An article published in 2005 in the Journal of

Happiness Studies analysed 916 surveys of over a million people in

forty-five countries and found that, on average, people placed

themselves at seven on the zero-to-ten scale of happiness according

to this definition.   

 

This research has begun to influence politicians in the USA and UK. 

David Cameron, in a speech delivered two years ago, set out a new

political agenda; ‘GDP. Gross domestic product. Yes it's vital. It

measures the wealth of our society. But it hardly tells the whole story. . . It's time we admitted that there's more to life than money, and it's time we focused not just on GDP, but on GWB - general well-being. . . It's about the beauty of our surroundings, the quality of our culture, and above all the strength of our relationships’. 

 

This was developed, in an educational context arguing for the

continuation of Ancient History a level, last year, by the recently elected Mayor of London, Boris Johnson, who said in an article, ‘We do what we do because we hope to achieve happiness. Every skill and every pursuit and every practical effort or undertaking seems to aim at some good, says old Aristotle, my all-time hero, and that goal is happiness . . .(Gordon Brown) does not understand that an educational system can be a eudaemonic triumph even if it encourages disciplines that add not a penny to national output . . . the advantage of study can consist in the happiness engendered by knowledge itself; and though you can certainly argue, as I do, that we are likely to have a much stronger economy if young people have the intellectual and emotional satisfaction of understanding their civilisation, and how it evolved, that is not the point. The point is that these subjects are a joy and an end in themselves’.

( http://www.spectator.co.uk/the-magazine/features/30987/the-pursuit-of-happiness.thtml ).

 

Richard Layard argued in an article http://cep.lse.ac.uk/centrepiece/v12i1/layard.pdf  ), also published last year, that the primary purpose of schools should be the development of good and happy people.  He suggested that students should have compulsory lessons about topics and skills that promote happiness including managing feelings, serving others and appreciating beauty.  Anthony Seldon and Frank Furedi  debated the topic of whether it was possible to teach happiness earlier this year.  Seldon argued that schools should teach students to handle relationships with technology, the environment, other people and with themselves.  This would enable them to be happy.  Furedi argued that teaching happiness was really promoting psychobabble and was a distraction from teaching subjects that matter like English and Mathematics.  Happiness could not be learnt but resulted from life’s encounters and challenges. The debate is summarized at http://education.guardian.co.uk/egweekly/story/0,,2257747,00.html .   

If happiness leads people to be more sociable, generous,  productive

at work and mentally healthy then should we have ‘happiness lessons’ 

at NHGS?  If the pursuit of happiness is our goal then should we

not educate students about happiness and its achievement?

DO WHAT I WANT NOT WHAT YOU DO!

Among the many witticisms attributed to Quentin Crisp, the outrageous actor, writer and raconteur was the following:

’'The young always have the same problem - how to rebel and conform at the same time.  They have now solved this by defying their parents and copying one another’.

 

This neatly highlights a key tension and characteristic of adolescence between the often antagonistic influences of parents and peers.  There has been a lively and lengthy debate about the relative importance of parents and peers in children’s development – an aspect of the nature-nurture issue.  Psychologists such as Jerome Kagan (in books such as The Long Shadow of Temperament and Young Mind in a Growing Brain) emphasise the Influence of genetics on our personality and behavior whilst others such as Judith Rich Harris (in books such as The Nurture Assumption and No Two Alike) argue that peers have a significant influence particularly during adolescence.  It is the relative influence of genetics and upbringing that is the subject of debate.

 

Teenage peer groups are those found in class, school or neighbourhoods based on age, interests, abilities, ethnicity or some other type of affiliation.  Peer groups are often seen as negative because they are an easy explanation for changes in behavior and attitude that many teenagers experience.  However peer groups can be very positive allowing young people to:

 

·         feel valued as a member of a group of  their choosing;

·         increase their self confidence

·         discuss and foster shared interests

·         ask for advice about contentious issues

·         test out attitudes and ideas

·         meet new people and develop new friendships

·         give them encouragement  and support

·         socialize and gain experience in getting along with different people

·         develop tolerance, empathy and respect

·         associate with positive role models who are kind, loyal or high achieving

 

In a recent survey, however, one in four parents identified peer pressure as the factor which had the most negative impact on children’s well-being.  Peers might exert pressure negatively to do something which is illegal, may cause harm to others or the individual or has the potential to harm others or the individual.   Negative peer pressure might also involve lying, sneaking around or other types of deception.  Getting involved in shoplifting, doing drugs, drinking alcohol,  taking dangerous risks when driving a car, or having sex before you feel ready may result from explicit peer pressure ("Oh, come on — it's just one beer, and everyone else is having one") or more indirectly — simply making beer available at a party, for instance.  Often peer pressure is more subtle.  Acceptance or approval from a group may be withheld from those not conforming to particular styles of dress or adopting particular attitudes.  An individual may also be subject to pressure if they are in a relationship (Amy and Blake!).   The pressure to conform (to do what others are doing) can be powerful and hard to resist. A teenager might feel pressure to do something just because others are doing it (or say they are). Some teenagers may act in a certain way because they believe their friends expect that from them whether or not the expectation is linked to a threat of being left out.There is no easy way to resist negative peer pressure.  Strategies include:

 

·         Listen to your conscience and if you are uncomfortable with what’s going on don’t get involved.